I like myself in a kind of a pissed off way – like why didn’t anyone ever tell me each decade is better than the next-but I am well aware of where I fail at the same time.
Some moments I see people doing something so beautiful and thorough and perfect that I wonder if I will be like that in my next life. I am always in a rush, always half doing things, burning things, chipping plates, knocking my hubcap off from rounding the corner too tightly, cutting myself, losing my temper,spilling things, not measuring, falling down, cutting corners, breaking rules, improvising, showing up late, working fast on my feet, never finishing my book club book, I don’t vote because I don’t feel like anyone is telling the truth, I hardly read the paper anymore and now have no idea what is going on in the world. My worst nightmare is someone locking me in a room and drilling me on current events. I KNOW NOTHING ANYMORE.
It is staggering really that I like myself.
anyway
Monday night, my lovely and good friend Annie hosted our annual book club dinner. I would rather die than miss this. I would walk over hot coals, spend a beautiful summer indoors doing long division in a turtleneck and wool pants, go on a diet, do my taxes and yours just for fun- just to get there.
But when I get there I always think the same thing “In my next life.” Never in a bad way but in an I admire your attention to detail, your patience and your dedication way.
Her house is decorated in a way that is so filled with love and creativity that it floods the senses when you walk in. She hands me a glass of red and I don’t speak I just look around and inhale and I could cry it is so beautiful. But full of love and her not ordered up from any magazine or designer.
She served us chestnut soup. She roasted the chestnuts herself. Did you hear me? Roasted the chestnuts herself in the 21st century. Between courses we cleansed our palates with homemade grapefruit champagne sorbet. I raved about this flavour and texture for so long she ran to the kitchen to print the recipe for me.
I smiled and took it and thought “In my next life”.
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