the unravelling

When you are dating you are like a ball of string. You may be tightly wound or loosely wound but you slowly or quickly begin to present your life to someone.

It is in those moments – you see your life as it would appear to someone else. You get to see it with fresh eyes in all its glory, with all its scars and in all its beauty.

You get to love yourself and your life all over again. All of its twists, all of its tangles and some of those knots.

try to imagine how interesting it is to date  someone  you knew only a bit 30 years ago and then know them again now and see them a bit as the boy at 19 and a lot as the man of 49. Click here for how he sees me